How do I know if a guy thought sex was good? While the stereotype is that men like sex no matter what (and generally it is true), the fact is that guys don’t always like the sex.
It might be your performance, he might feel awkward or it might be some unrelated factor, but there are things that can make him dislike the sex. While every man is different and a red flag might just be how your man acts, there are a few things that you can check for to see if he thought the sex was good.
Many women feel that cuddling after sex is a great way to show that they loved having sex, but men are typically different. While there are some men that like the cuddle, the stereotype and common truth is that men tend to fall asleep after sex.
The reason you feel like cuddling is because your body is swimming with oxytocin, otherwise known as the bonding hormone. This hormone occurs after sex and it makes women more emotional. Not only do they want to cuddle, but they really want to bond with their partner.
Men don’t experience this. Most men actually go directly to a pre-arousal state after sex and they might be drained from expending so much energy. So if your guy passes out, then you shouldn’t take this as meaning that he didn’t like the sex. Some guys pass out because they had great sex and they really did like it.
He Tries New Things
Men are typically known as the more experimental type when it comes to sex, and this is often true. At the same time, they are usually timid because they don’t know if you’ll allow them to be experimental, though most women are just as willing to try new things.
If he talks to you about trying new things or just does them, then this is a good indicator that he likes the sex. It means that he likes you and what the two of you are doing, and they he’s comfortable enough to try new things with you.
Stays in Bed
If you are having a quickie or if he has a schedule to keep (like seeing someone or going to work), then he’s obviously going to head out the door after sex. However, since men are more likely to crash after sex, he is probably going to stay in bed with you after sex.
If he makes a sudden reason to leave, then he might be feeling embarrassed about something, or he might have disliked the sex. Take this with a grain of salt. Some guys run away because they don’t want you to see their penis after it becomes flaccid (yes, size matters a lot to a guy) or they might have some body issues.
Talks About Next Time
If he stays awake, then you are likely to talk about the sex you just had. While he will probably say it was good, you don’t know if he’s just saying that to be nice or if he really liked it. However, if he starts talking about having sex again (either right now or at a later time), then this shows that he liked the sex and he wants to be with you again.
While most people think that men are always turned on and love sex all the time, the truth is that men can be just as dissatisfied by bad sex as women can. While it might be hard to tell if he really liked it or not, try following these tips to see what he is thinking during and after sex.